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life around the university could be improved or just things that are
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published (as long as it is not something really silly). Dr Jack will
comment and readers may e-mail a response. Although E-mail contains
identifying information, your published opinion will be totally
confidential - no names or identity clues will ever be revealed. This is a
good chance for students to have a real voice in the university, not
through do-nothing committees, but actually out in the open for all to see
and offer a comment. Several students with good ideas has to be taken very
seriously by instructors and administrators - at the least, a response is
guaranteed. Let's see what you're thinking!
LOFT CAMPUS INTERVIEWS
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University and in no way reflects official policies or opinions of the
University and its representatives.)
Fall 2009
Received 9.27.2009
"...The main problem I have with
Kent State is scheduling.... I find it difficult to schedule classes in
a time frame I can work with. I work Monday through Friday in the day.
So classes like Psych of Adjustment and even Sociology are usually not
into a time frame I can schedule into. I was lucky to have found a job
where I can work and be able to schedule a late afternoon class
occasionally. For the most part I need evening classes.
Having said that, I actually
switched my major to HDFS because I was told it was an evening major and
that I could get my classes at East Liverpool with one in the daytime and
one in the evening and then reversing them the next semester. Now we are
being told, not only do we have to drive to Salem to get these classes, most
of them are scheduled from 6:30 to 9PM. That means those of us that started
in East Liverpool in this program have to drive on dark roads, later in the
evening to get home. We have been continually mislead and even lied to.
And the sad part is that no one cares. We are being sacrificed to the
"blending of classes" to save money. So not only do I feel frustrated
with Kent State's lack of understanding as to what non-traditional students
need. but I feel betrayed by an advisor who seems to have a new story and
a new excuse every semester."
Name withheld.
Dr Jack's Angry Response,,,
Interesting comment. Any two campus system will always
have difficulties with communication and scheduling, but the author suggests
more than a systemic difficulty. The author indicates that administration
might be concerned with the quality of student services.
Received 4-14-07...
"...I just wanted to comment on the
allegations against Mr. Imus' comments. It seems to me that there is a
double standard. So what he called a predominantly black women's
basketball team "nappy headed hos". I don't see Fifty Cent or Twister or
any other rapper being criticized for calling black women "bitches", "hos",
"hood rats" or other derogatory names in their music or everyday
speech.. So what is the big deal? Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson make me
sick...everything does not have to be them fighting against racism...or
them coming to the rescue so to speak, this is not the '60s...If Don
Imus' show will no longer be broadcast on NBC, then rapper's music
should be banned as well...So it's OK for the black man to criticize and
consistently degrade the black woman, but when a white guy does it, he
is out of line! It's a double standard if you ask me...women have been
called hos and bitches for years! If they are going to make an example
of him (Imus), make an example of the so-called Hip Hop culture as
well." Shalonda Respress
Dr Jack's Angry
Response...
One of many problems with the American culture is its
plethora of contradictory attitudes that exist side by side leading to much
confusion and sometimes anger. As far as Imus is concerned, he has gotten
away with far too much in the past in terms of ridiculing people who simply
do not deserve it. Like all bully's, they tend to fall in love with their
own words and eventually self-destruct and usually (boringly so) defend
their positions by saying, "I was just kidding!" Well, Imus did just that.
FALL
2006
Received 8-31-06...
"...how do we begin and how do we get to the point of
violence? I thought it had to do a lot with a person's upbringing and/or
personality. However, a girl in class began arguing that everything stems
from money. I thought at first that the idea was ridiculous. But I remember
as a little girl in elementary school that most of the kids were friends
with each other. There weren't many groups. But, when friends I made at
school began inviting me to their houses to play, there were some friends
that I was allowed to go see and there were others that I wasn't. I was
asked questions by my parents. "Where does she live?" "Who are her parents?"
Some turned out to be more suitable friends than others and, when questioned
why, I was told that, "It is OK to be friends in school, but I really don't
want you going over to her house." So my social group was chosen for me by
my parents at a young age, as I am sure happens with many other children,
because of how much money the families had.
But I do not think they see it as
continuing the same social hierarchy that they lived through too, they were
simply protecting me from the "ugly" side of things. So by the time most of
us get to high school we have been completely separated into groups with
labels and attitudes to match. While I was in school we had "preps", the
rich kids who dressed in nothing but name brand expensive clothes and drove
expensive cars and never had to work because their parents were rich enough
to pay for everything. They looked down their noses at everyone else and
never spoke to anyone outside of their social group unless they had to, it
was beneath them. At the bottom of the social pyramid was the "dirties", the
ones who had reduced lunches and second-hand clothes and, if they had a car,
it never worked properly or looked nice. They believed themselves better
than the preps because they had to work and fight through life, nothing was
ever handed to them . In the middle was my group. We were the middle class
families who dressed well, but couldn't afford the really expensive clothes,
we worked to pay for the insurance on our cars, but our parents bought the
newer model cars for us. A run-in with any one group demeaning another
was cause for fighting, physical or mental. Mental was worse than physical
most times. A person's reputation could be completely ruined with a single
rumor. ...then when we all began dating, again the parents came into play.
...I have been dating my boyfriend for ... years and he treats me like gold
and we have plans to marry. However my one parent still tells me that he
likes him, but he just thinks I could do better. It is like, "He is below
our social group, neither he nor any of his family has any money and he is
not as educated as you." He seems to completely forget that he was once that
poor boy dating a girl a class above him. ...
Name withheld for
personal reasons....
Dr Jack's
Angry Response... We are all chameleons
in life's zoo, just do not get caught in the food chain!
Spring 2006
Received 4-26-06 from info on internet to Lisa Frank:
...., when will they so something about my RIGHTS?
I celebrate Christmas, but because it isn't celebrated by everyone, we
can no longer say Merry Christmas. Now it has to be Season's Greetings.
It's not Christmas vacation, it is Winter Break. We've gone so far the
other way, bent over backwards to not offend anyone, that I am now being
offended, but it seems that no one has a problem with that! IMMIGRANTS,
NOT AMERICANS MUST ADAPT. I am tired of this nation worrying about
whether we are offending some individual or their culture. Since the
terrorist attacks on Sept. 11, we have experienced a surge of patriotism
by the majority of Americans, but ... the dust from the attacks had
barely settled when the "politically correct" crowd began complaining
about the possibility that our patriotism was offending others. I am not
against immigration, nor do I hold a grudge against anyone who is
seeking a better life by coming to America. ...However, there are a few
things that those who have recently come to our country, and apparently
some born here, need to understand. The idea of America being a
multicultural community has served only to dilute our sovereignty and
our national identity. As Americans...we have our own culture, our own
society, our own language and our own lifestyle. This culture has been
developed over centuries of struggles, trials and victories by men and
women who have sought freedom. We speak ENGLISH, not Spanish,
Portuguese, Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Russian or any other language.
Therefore, if you wish to become part of our society, learn the
language. "In God We Trust" is our national motto. This is not some
Christian, right wing, political slogan. We adopted this motto because
Christian men and women founded this nation on Christian principles and
this is clearly documented. It is certainly appropriate to display it on
the walls of our schools. If (our) God offends you, then I suggest you
consider another part of the world as your new home because God is a
part of our culture. If Stars and Stripes offend you, then I suggest you
move to another part of this planet.. We are happy with our culture and
have no desire to change and we really do not care how you did things
where you came from. This is OUR COUNTRY, our land and our lifestyle.
Our First Amendment gives every citizen the right to express their
opinion and we will allow you every opportunity to do so! But once you
are done complaining, whining and griping about our flag, our pledge,
our national motto or our way of life, I highly encourage you to take
advantage of one other great American freedom - the right to leave.
Dr Jack's Angry Response:
Interesting, but not something that has not been
heard. Even still it is being said more and more. It would be nice to know
the identity and background who wrote this, but that is the problem with
anonymous e-mails. The logic ranges from sound/specious reasoning to
interpretive touches of "supremacy" nationalism. Not that it should be
dismissed, but a good argument is a bit more consistent. On the other hand,
many successful protests and rhetorical speeches throughout history have had
nothing to do with sound reasoning! The one really fascinating point relates
to recent mass protests. A lawyer may be better able to answer this question
- how can participants in any mass rally have the right of free speech if
they are illegal immigrants? Citizens are protected by the Constitution, not
illegals.
Received 4-24-06: I
guess I have to say this with all the meetings going on around campus
about rights and things. A couple years ago I worked at a restaurant and
one day put up on the bulletin board a notice wheres to call
about global warming and Greenpeace. I was worrieed that things were
getting bad and should do something about them. The next day the owner
of the place told me to take the notice down and if I ever put up
anything like that again I could walk. I have one kid and I need to
work. What good do protests and these meetings really do?
Dr Jack's Angry Response:
The federal government has learned how to
handle and manipulate "awareness" meetings and public protests almost to the
point that they are unimportant. You did learn a good lesson that "rights"
are in the hands of whoever has the social power - in your case, the owner
of the store! Most social problems people today realize that change, more
than other times, comes from within. Protests like those of the mid-20th
century are a thing of the past in so far as getting things done. A more
powerful way to change in contemporary society is still to gather advocates,
but to use the internet because it is easier to accumulate vast numbers
without being censored. It is also seen as a metaphorical symbol of
contemporary power that garners much respect and sometimes fear from those
in control!
Received
4-8-06: I need an
opportunity to vent a little problem I have been having for the last two
semesters. ... I work together with two other students on a common
project. We have been working on it since last August. The professor
meets with us approximately once a week. The problem is that I am the
only person that cares about the project. One student has come up with
every excuse on the planet to miss not only class meetings, but also
meetings we have set up ourselves. The other student has to be lead
(led) by the hand to get anything done. ... I have exhausted myself
trying to accommodate everyone so that we can get together as a group
and finish this project. ... I have complained to my professor and his
solution is to place me "in charge" and load even more responsibilities
on my shoulders. This would not be a problem for me if the students were
graded for their effort rather than being placed in a category of Pass
or Fail. As long as these students show up once in a while and pretend
to do something, they will be given the exact same credit as myself. I
do not understand why they would have joined the group to start with if
they were unable to come to class meetings. I do not like to whine, but
sometimes I must.
Dr Jacks Angry Response: Congratulations!
You have now learned the flaw in P/F courses. Most students just do not take
them seriously and consider a P/F an "easy mark". Why not? Just hand in "any
old thing and the Prof will shuffle you through!" It comes down to
student attitude and you may be on the wrong end. Obviously you are
conscientious and the Prof trusts you with responsibility. That is a good
thing and you should get some solace from it along with the fact that the
others have good chances of being fired from any job they get after
graduation because of the attitude they have developed. It does sound like
you do not have a "team effort" so you might entertain this idea: document
who does not come to the meetings, who does not do the work and finish the
project yourself. Let the others worry about their lack of responsibility at
grade time.
Received 4-15-06:
Beth Allison-Christy forwarded this discussion from America Online concerning diversity with
some thought provoking ideas:
We know
Dick Lamm as the former Governor of Colorado. In that context his
comments are particularly poignant. Last week there was an immigration
population conference in Washington, D.C. filled to capacity by many of
America's finest minds and leaders. A brilliant college professor by the
name of Victor Hansen Davis talked about his latest book, Mexifornia,
explaining how immigration - both legal and illegal - was destroying
California. He said it would march across the country until it
destroyed all vestiges of the American Dream.
Moments
later, former Colorado Governor Richard D. Lamm stood up and gave a
stunning speech on how to destroy America. Thee audience sat spellbound
as he described eight methods for the destruction of the United States.
He said, "If you believe that America is too smug, too self-satisfied,
too rich, then let's destroy America. It is not that hard to do. No
nation in history has survived the ravages of time. Arnold Toynbee
observed that all great civilizations rise and fall and that an autopsy
of history would show that all great nations commit suicide."
"Here is how they do it,"Lamm said.
"First to destroy America, turn Anerica into a
bi-lingual or multi-lingual and multicultural country. History shows
that no nation can survive the tension, conflict and antagonism of two
or more competing languages and cultures. It is a blessing for an
individual to be bilingual; however it is a curse for a society to
be bilingual. The historical scholar, Seymor Lipset put it this way,
"The histories of bilingual and bi-cultural societies that do not
assimilate are histories of turmoil, tension and tragedy." Canada,
Belgium, Malaysia and Lebanon all face crises of national existence in
which minorities press for autonomy, if not independence. Pakistan and
Cyprus have divided. Nigeria suppressed an ethnic rebellion. France
faces difficulties with Basques, Bretons and Corsicans."
Lamm went on, Second, to destroy America, invent
multiculturalism and encourage immigrants to maintain their culture. I
would make it an article of belief that all cultures are equal. That
there are no cultural differences. I would make it an article of faith
that the black and Hispanic drop-out rates are due solely to prejudice
and discrimination by the majority. ...
Third, we could make the United States a Hispanic Quebec without
much effort. The key is to celebrate diversity rather than unity. As
Benjamin Schwartz said in the Atlantic Monthly recently, "The apparent
success of our own multiethnic and multicultural experiment might have
been achieved not by tolerance, but by hegemony. Without the dominance
that once dictated ethnocentricity and what it meant to be an American,
we are left with only tolerance and pluralism to hold us together." Lamm
said, "I would encourage all immigrants to keep their own language and
culture. I would replace the melting pot metaphor with the salad bowl
metaphor. It is important to ensure that we have various cultural
subgroups living in America enforcing their differences rather than as
Americans, emphasizing their similarities."
Fourth, I would make our fastest growing demographic
group the least educated. I would add a second underclass,
unassimilated, undereducated and antagonistic to our population. I would
have this second underclass have a 50% dropout rate from high school.
My fifth point for destroying
America would be to get big foundations and business to give these
efforts lots of money. I would invest in ethnic identity and would
establish a cult of "Victimology". I would get all minorities to think
that heir lack of success was the faulty of the majority. I would start
a grievance industry blaming all minority failure on the majority
population.
My sixth plan for America's downfall would include dual
citizenship and promote divided loyalties. I would celebrate diversity
over unity. I would stress differences rather than similarities. Diverse
people worldwide are mostly engaged in hating each other - that is, when
they are not killing each other. A diverse, peaceful or stabile society
is against most historical precedent. People undervalue the unity it
takes to keep a nation together. Look at the ancient Greeks ...(social)
bonds were not strong enough to overcome two factors: local patriotism
and geographical conditions that nurtured political divisions. Greece
fell.
Next to last, I would place all subjects off
limits; make it taboo to talk about anything against the cult of
"diversity". I would find a word similar to "heretic" in the 17th
century - that stopped discussion and paralyzed thinking. Words like
"racist", "xenophobe" or "homophobic" halt discussion and debate. Having
made America a bilingual/bicultural country, having established
multiculturalism, having the large foundations fund the Doctrine of "Victimology",
I would next make it impossible to enforce our immigration laws. I would
develop a mantra: That because immigration has been good for America, it
will always be good. I would make every individual immigrant symmetric
and ignore the cumulative impact of millions of them.
In the last minute of his speech, Governor Lamm wiped
his brow. Profound silence followed. Finally he said, "Lastly I would
censor Hanson's book Mexifornia. It exposes the plan to destroy America.
If you feel America deserves to be destroyed, don't read that book."
There was no applause....every American in that room
knew that everything Lamm had said was proceeding methodically, quietly,
darkly, yet pervasively across the United States today. Discussion is
being suppressed. Over 100 languages are ripping the foundation of our
educational system and national cohesiveness. Even barbaric cultures
that are practicing female genital mutilation are growing are we
celebrate "diversity". American jobs are vanishing into the Third World
as corporations create a Third World in America. Take note of California
and other states - to date, ten million illegal aliens and growing fast.
...
Dr Jack's Angry Response:
What an
interesting article! Lamm does have some non-sequiturs and rhetorical
argumentation that is logically questionable, but the points are real and
troubling to many. There is no doubt there is concern about the suppression
of speech in addressing politically correct topics. Often even jobs are
threatened when such occurs. Sometimes what was radical or deviant in the
past has become fashionable and this is of concern, not particularly because
times do change, but for lack of a forum and healthy debate over
philosophical contradictories. Some see America today as two-faced and
hypocritical for these very reasons and target the real benefactors as
corporate America. Even the hallowed "diversity" now has its detractors
among minorities because it focuses on those very things that we have said
we should not focus on. In other words, diversity reinforces and fosters
discrimination while supporting a lack of cultural unity. Immigration has
also become a point of contention with millions of immigrants pouring in as
jobs fade away through downsizing and outsourcing. How long can the middle class
support the unemployment and welfare rolls when that same class is being
diminished? What is your opinion?
Received 2-15-2006:
I was recently involved in a conversation
with a few other students about a director of one of the most popular
programs on campus. We all agreed that this person tries to make students
feel as if they can not succeed. This person comes across as being very
arrogant, to the point of being rude. This person is not the type of person
that should wield the power to potentially decide our futures. There are
several accounts of this person telling students that they are never going
to survive in the program because they do not have the brains for it or
several other insults to that effect. I have had this person tell me that
they have no idea why I was accepted into the program because " There is no
way you will ever make it!" This person has also said to students, "I don't
let chemistry credits transfer because chemistry weeds out all the dumb
ones." It is wrong for an administrator to speak to students this way. On
top of being just plain mean, this person is also very unorganized and
unapologetic. My application was lost three times while in this person's
hands and my Honor's application, which that person insisted I turn in to
them, was "missing" for five months. I almost wasn't accepted into the
program because of this person's carelessness. Each time that I have had to
submit a new application, I was told I shouldn't even be considered for the
program because I wasn't responsible for turning it in on time. When I first
started considering applying for this program, I was warned by second year
students that the person in charge would do everything in their power to
keep students from succeeding. These students also told me to be sure to
make copies of anything important we had to turn in because papers often
disappeared in this person's care. I was told by another administrator that
it was necessary to check any information that was given by this person with
another administrator because this administrator often gave the wrong
information to students. This is a stressful enough time for students;
administrators shouldn't intentionally make it worse. In fact, they should
be trying to help. No one deserves to be treated this way. Any ideas on how
to deal with this situation? Has anyone had a similar experience? I would
love to hear everyone's thoughts on this topic.
Dr
Jack's Angry Response:
Teachers are supposed to teach, administrators are supposed to administer -
not make value judgments. We need more comments from others who are in the
same situation.
A suggestion: An advisor once asked me why I wanted to
come back to school when I was in my early 50s and older than most of the
students. I did not reply, continued on and made straight "A"s .
(Oh, alright! There was a "B" in there!)
Received 2-18-2006:
I find the student's
comments very interesting. I too am experiencing a similar problem with the
program I am to someday graduate from. Many of my fellow classmates in the
program I am involved with are having problems with a certain individual in
charge. Although these concerns/complaints have been addressed at the Main
Campus with the main person in charge of our particular program, we are left
without much results. Enrollment in this program has been decreasing. Many
students have opted to change programs. I am sure that this individual, as
well as others, (is) in search of a higher education in the pursuit to find
("of finding") gainful employment. The administrators in charge of these
programs are ones that one seeks answers from in pursuit of the attainment
of this goal. I agree with your comments. Teachers should be teaching and
administrators should be administering. College is a very stressful time for
all of us. The best suggestion that I could make to this individual is to
contact the individual in charge of the Department at Main Campus that
oversees their particular program. Another suggestion would be to form a
committee or do a survey of students whom are experiencing this same problem
and forming solutions to the problem.
Dr Jack's Angry Response:
I wonder if the two people are
discussing the same department? Let's see if other students agree.
CHALLENGE
2-6-06: Robert Risko. "You see a lot of photos, but a drawing done by a
skilled artist can tell more than a photograph ever will. A photo is like
junk food. it is an immediate read, you feel an immediate intimacy with the
person, but in the long run a drawing is more memorable. Time magazine has
done studies, and people remember an illustration of a person more than a
photograph. A drawing creates an icon. A good photographer can do that, but
most of them don't. Artwork plays into your dream consciousness..."
Dr Jack: I agree and disagree. I would
like students to submit drawings and photographs for publication on the web
site. Is Risko right? Let's see who does the best - an artist or
photographer? Winner of the contest will get a nice prize and the contest
ends the first day of March.
1-23-06: While sitting at the Hard
Rock Cafe, it was mentioned that women sure go for those guys with long
hair and a guitar even though they may not have the total range of
abilities of, say, a concert pianist. There was no disagreement and the
conversation continued as to why this might be the case. The following is
a woman's response concerning this issue:
"It is not
the musician nor the music - it is the length of the hair. In a way, it
emasculates them so that it is less than a power struggle. Women always
attempt to level out the playing field, especially with men. That is why
apologies from men are so important - it brings them down!"
Interesting comment or admission. What do you
think?
This was received 1-24-06:
Two weeks into this semester and still for some of the classes students are
patiently awaiting books. Classes continue and assignments are falling behind
due to no books. Constant excuses and finger pointing is being done for the
lack of books not being in. For some students this is ok because of the
resources available to them to get the books from different avenues. For
others they must patiently await the arrival of the books because they have
no means to go elsewhere to get them. For those whose hope is striving for a
better life and gaining a higher education to get "the finer things in life"
or The American Dream; this can prove to be frustrating. Not to mention
dealing with classes that one needs in order to graduate being cancelled and
when calling ones advisor in regards to the implications this could pose in
a possible postponement of a possible graduation date with no return call.
Then if you advocate for your rights and what you believe in as being true,
you are labeled as a troublemaker. What is up with this? We are all supposed
to be adults. Is this what our future holds for the generation coming up in
the ranks? We are doing a great disservice to those coming up. And people
wonder about why many move away once they achieve their goals. And the
question is: "With what is being learned today, in the system of
schooling/higher education, are we not perpetuating the problems?" SC
Dr Jack's Angry Response:
There is no doubt that texts, through no fault of the
E. Liv. Kent bookstore, have become an enormous
problem not only from a price aspect but also the obtaining of such this
semester. In fact, many argue the publishing industry has gotten out of hand
and others believe that the university community, administrators, managers
and students should get together and decide what to do about the situation.
Some feel the book companies should be protested, others advocate going to
the WWW for text purchase and there is always the proposal of no texts in
some classes with the instructor authoring a "guide" for minimal price. All
have some merit, but there is more here as the writer indicates. We all know
that the situation has come about because of money. Everyone wants more
money and generally the Captains of Industry get it with the common person
suffering higher and higher bills.
That would be OK if salaries were raised proportionally to what the managers
are paid, but this is not the case. Minimum wage deters such action and the
common person is being left out of the so-called "strong economy". The
author's question concerning what is learned in the systems of higher
education today is intriguing. Does the contemporary student learn more
about inefficiency and greed from their being immersed in the education
systems or do they learn to become responsible, intelligent and good
citizens? As Bob Dylan said, "It doesn't take a weatherman to know which way
the wind is blowing." Dr Jack
Fall
2005
Spring
2005
This was received: 4-10-05 "The worst scenarios I've had are with guys. I was
labeled as being a geek and it stuck from elementary school through high
school. I remember in 7th grade, at the bus stop, a boy tried to make me
smoke and he threatened to beat me up after school , but I ran all the way
home before he could. On the worst case with the girls, had to be also in
7th grade, a girl, (I can't remember her name) spread horrible rumors
about me and called me out of name constantly. Even after a face-to-face
confrontation, where we almost fought, she still bullied me through Middle
School. Also, I remember through High School, a group of boys spread
rumors that I was a ho and pregnant. I had a face-to-face confrontation
with a football player during Senior year. Basically, the assignment was
we had to teach the class about something we were interested in for a
week. Unfortunately I was chosen first, so I taught for two weeks and gave
an open notes test on JFK. He got in my face because he didn't get the
bonus question right, which if he had he would have had an "A" instead of
a "B+", so he started calling me out of my name and said he would
disfigure my face if I didn't give him an "A", but I held my ground and
got into his face and I called for the Vice Principal because he was
really acting like a spoiled brat who wasn't getting his way, and she
resolved it before I had to. I asked him to step outside, if he was so
macho to disfigure me as he put it, and you know he backed down every time
I said it. Because I would have seriously fought him on school property
and got suspended. After the clash, don't you know I had no more trouble
from him and we were OK after that. It's sad when you can't get through
your Senior year without friction. Ya know, also that year, these two
Freshmen tried to claim their territory by saying the 3rd Floor was their
domain because that's where their lockers were. The first thing I thought,
"What a bunch of insecure, immature, jealous brats." I had been inducted
into the National Honors Society a year before and I wasn't about to let
Freshmen ruin my last year. I made it through that year with all A's and I
graduated in the upper quarter of my class, even though I didn't make it
to the top ten, I felt I had done my best. 6th grade and 9th grade were
both hard for me because the upper classes really made fun of you plus I
had family troubles at home. But, I had a supportive mother and we both
went to counseling both during and after her depression to get help. And I
still say the guys gave me more trouble than the girls even my secret
crush did and I had to tell him off to ... because he was talking about my
clothes and stuff ... not just him, "his group of friends". He talked
about everybody like he was Mister Perfect or something and so that was a
major turn-off and I asked myself, "Why do I have such a crush on this
jerk?" and someone asked me out and I got over him. Even though the
relationship lasted only six months, it's the longest relationship I've
had with a guy, and there was some backlash of aggression and hot tempered
so I left. But after looking at Junior High and High School, the girls
weren't too bad to deal with, the guys took a lot of courage to deal with
though. Believe me I ate alone at lunch all my Junior year, "If I have to
change who I am to fit in then screw it and screw them if they can't
accept me for who I am." Believe me, this motto kicked in at the end of
the Sophomore year. Well, I've bugged you long enough, this is the bug
signing off.
Dr Jack's Angry Response: Wow! Double jeopardy! Both relational aggression and male
bullying. This is really interesting - male bullying of a female usually
doesn't occur because it is seen as less than macho and often a sign of
cowardice, especially in inner city environments. Also sounds like you
were doing well in school and became a target for others to simply shoot
at. (A favorite pastime of school students who have low esteem.) What is
of more interest is the solution you inadvertently used to get through all
this, i.e., a sound opinion of yourself and a strong family/supportive
background which is the real lesson to learn here. Solid identity and
realistic goals in school are strongly recommended along with family
support by theorists and practitioners in these areas as solutions to the
difficulties encountered. Relational aggression is never easy for the
target, but it can be solved and apparently you had the
"key".
This was received 4-18-05: "Something I've been noticing since I started going to
college is a growing distance between friends and even family that have
not gone to college or aren't planning to go. I'm trying to stay close
with them all, but ever since I began planning a "higher education, they
have been acting odd around me. My uncle, whom I have always been close
with , now tries to avoid conversations with me and when we do talk he
will always ask me about school only so he can say what I'm being taught
is "bullshit". My father keeps telling me I need to stop talking "like a
college boy", but I actually speak the same as I did before starting down
here at Kent. Call me naive or stupid, but I didn't see any of this
coming."
Dr Jack's Angry Response! Of course you did not see any of it coming. These
are your family and friends which you trust, but that has little to do
with it. A college education has a certain social status (imagined
though it may be) that many people do not like, especially if they see
they have lost that opportunity. Your friends are reacting with normal
envy and I suspect a certain amount of jealousy. In a way, they see you as
trying to be better than they are which is probably true only in the
sense that you want to improve your life - NOT to put one over on them. So
they become defensive and try to put you back in your place. They may also
see you as a friend who is moving away from them through education and are
simply reacting to the supposed loss. Keep being who you are, respect them
and eventually they will understand you are not a threat.
Fall
2004______
This was received: 9-7-04: I was
wondering what you thought about a small theory I came up with dealing
with the abuse of drugs in our society. Society views drugs as an
outlet from the difficulties and hardships of everyday life, which I don't
disagree with, but if we look back in time to the Romans, for example.
They were profound wine drinkers and well known for their love of life and
pleasure in all forms. Wine was more commonly drunk than water in that
time and yet they didn't have alcohol abuse. Well, at least in the terms
we have come to know it as because in their times there was no such thing.
Another example is the Native Americans with their tobaco smoking. Very
few Native Americans die of lung cancer or other llness tied to
smoking. They in their traditional sense of smoking the tobacco leaf
for ceremonial purposes and making peace between people. We, on the other
hand, have people dropping like flies over cancers and drunk drivers. In
other cultures, such drugs as cocaine and opium were used for
enlightenment and medicinal uses. What all these facts about past
civilizations have in common is control over the substance and not the
other way around as it is in our society. I have come up with the idea or
theory that our society lacks the control and knowledge to simply use
these once helpful substances. These substances were never truly viewed as
a way to get away from the hardships of life, so why is it today that we
now see it as so and why is it that we now have the terms of "druggies"
and "rehab"? I suppose what I am trying to get at is wouldn't it be fair
to say that in some sense that through our society's own self-indulged and
close-minded ways we have created our own "drug problem" in the world and
it wasn't just something that popped out of nowhere one
day?
Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
Well, what an interesting theory, but
there are some problems. The Romans sure did have alcohol abuse and many
writers of that time commented the Empire was "going to hell" through
alcohol consumption. In fact, people would go to a banquet, stuff
themselves with food and drink, then go to the Vomitorium to purge
themselves and go back for more! There are no statistics to back up the
mortality rate for Native Americans concerning lung cancer or any cancer
for that matter. Since the beginning of the 20th century, American society
has kept close tabs on disease rates, etc., but this does not infer that
the rate is any greater or lessor than other cultures because there is no
consistent study done so far to establish health trends in the nature you
speak of. Your comment concerning social control is well taken and is the
subject of some discussion. Americans and the government traditionally
look for blame and overlook the real reasons for many social ills.
Actually, Dr Leary and others in the 60s tried to convince people that
drugs could enhance one's life. This met with little success and that is
probably the best outcome considering the focus was on LSD which is not
exactly a tame substance. Drugs remove some "reality restrictions", from a
Freudian standpoint, but do not alleviate the problem in the long run. On
the other hand, a recreational "buzz" now and then may aid one in seeing
things from a different perspective and be helpful. Levels of reality are
activated by many things not to mention drug assisted. On the other hand,
levels of reality can become nightmares through drug influence! As far as
Americans fabricating a "drug problem" - that depends on your point of
view. Your argument tends to lack consistency and the facts are less than
accurate, but you are thinking and do have a point concerning the concept
of "control" whether it be personal or social. Reactions from other
students on your thoughts would be interesting. Of particular interest
would be the sharing of similar thoughts from students in other
institutions to see if there is a common cultural understanding. Student
opinion from say, the University of Michigan, Case Western, Miami of Ohio,
Pitt (for example) would be welcome. Thanx for the e-mail. Dr
Jack.
This was received:
9-14-04 Some students told me you signed
up for extra credit going to career day in mary pat. i had to go home and
take care of the kids. Am i being punished for not
going?
Dr Jack's Angry Response: Rather
insightful question. There are several thoughts on that "extra credit"
deal. Some argue it is the commodification of education and that knowledge
is treated more like a thing than an experience, therefore one can get
"extra credit". Does that mean that those who attend are favored over
those that don't. If so, then this is discrimination in the educational
process. The American educational system is, however, a rather forgiving
one compared to other systems around the world and leaves many
opportunities to adjust one's performance as one goes along. It is argued
that this is a positive factor and "extra credit" is one manifestation. Of
course, it is understood that "extra credit" is another way to get numbers
of people to attend a specific function. The argument here is that "extra
credit" would not be needed if the event was advertised properly.
Some also go so far to say that it is "academic blackmail". (Yea, but you
do get food!) On the other hand, it still is one's free choice to attend
or not attend no matter what the circumstances - short of catastrophe!
Generally, however, "extra credit" is looked upon by education
professionals as community college oriented and not particularly a
university ploy. Actually, "extra credit" really has to do with people who
are concerned, in a negative manner, about their grades. In all
probability, if you are a good student and performing well, "extra credit"
is irrelevant. Neat question. Thanx. Dr
Jack.
This was
received: 9-16-2004 I believe that "extra credit"
is simply something that teachers give out to allow the students that
don't do their regular work to get more points to improve their grade,
simply by doing something easier. For example, if a student does not
complete a small homework assignment which may have required a little
thinking, they may just say "...well, I'll make it up by going and writing
my name on a paper at this stupid event." (quotes added) I personally
believe that this is unfair to those who have completed the other homework
and put the effort into getting the grade which they deserved. To me,
"extra credit" should be for the students who, at the end of a grading
period, are on the edge of a grade, such as someone who is 1 - 10 ponts
away from an A or a B. They should have the ability to do one extra
project or assignment to simply bump their grade up, as long as they have
been doing the other classwork which was assigned. Furthermore, I believe
that no one should be punished nor looked down upon for not doing an
"extra credit" assignment. For example, many teachers will assign "extra
credit" then on a test will take questions from that assignment. This, as
you said, would be "academic blackmail", which I believe is one hundred
percent incorrect and wrong for a teacher to do. Thank
you.
This was received:
9-16-2004 extra credit is unfair and stupid - it has nothing to do with
work in class
Dr Jack's Angry
Response: 9-17-2004 Now this IS getting interesting. Both
respondents question the veracity of applying "extra credit" to classroom
work. It is a good question! Does a trip to a person who works in a
certain profession have anything to do with one's grade in class? If they
give them information to do better in class - sure. However, if this is
not the case, then maybe there is a real issue here. Certainly a career
counsellor may "hype" the student to do better, but desire is not really a
gradable area. Most students desire to do better, but this is not grounds
for credit in classroom achievement. Exams, by design, are not
interpretive, although some results may be, but that still does not infer
mandatory assignment of a grade - unless "extra credit" is considered a
touchstone for academic achievement. (Well, hardly.) Another way to
look at this concerns the issue of a sick student or one who has
obligations so that they can not go to the event that qualifies them for
extra credit. Certainly all instructors have provisions for this as
make-up exams, but should they also have "extra credit Make-ups"? This
could get real ridiculous because then the people who went to the event
would say that "extra credit make-up" is unfair to them because they took
the time to go and the others are getting classroom credit without making
the effort they did! (Again, is intent a gradable rubric?) Another point
that was discussed was the question concerning students "on the
edge" of another grade as a B+ or C+. Do they get the opportunity for
"extra credit". Some argue that there may be circumstances that qualify a
student for this and others argue classroom achievement and the process is
stipulated. (Similar to: "A grade is a grade - you had fair
time and chance to achieve.") But one may still have that nagging feeling
that a student who does not perform to their desires will be given another
chance while one who does what they do and does not take the extra credit
is really being penalized. Actually, if one looks at the U.S. school
system as anticipatory socialization, then the "second chance" philosophy
has a hard time mimicking the preparation of students for business and
industry. Of course, the "loose-coupling" phenomena would justify "extra
credit" to the instructor (this does not condone, just justifies).
Administrators are not bound by this, but bound by other non-academic
concerns. Which then brings up another question... Oh heck...neat stuff -
let's see if anyone has an alternate take on this issue. (You'll get extra
credit if you do....)
This was received 21
September 2004 Extra credit has been used for years by teachers for
various reasons. I have taken a class where the teacher has no choice but
to allow extra credit because he was not able to convey the material of
the subject to us in a manner where we could understand it and pass his
class. If he didn't give extra credit (and bend the grading curve to
almost a breaking point) no one in his class would have gotten a grade
above a C. This is an extreme case of course but one where extra credit
became a savior to the students. It has also been my experience that most
of the time the people that want extra credit are also the ones that need
that A in the class no matter what or their world comes crashing down
around them for some reason. The strive to be perfect and they don't care
that they are already getting a B easily in the class, but they have to
have an A. That case no extra credit should be assigned because, what is
the point. I think it just causes the teacher more work because, then they
have to go over a report or what not from a kid that is already passing
their class with flying colors. I think that a teacher should examine
their classes at the beginning of each semester and try to see if they are
hard working or lazy bums. It can sometimes happen that a very bright
student or class can try very hard and still just not grasp a full concept
so then extra credit is not only a nice way of helping with their grades
but also another way of trying to get across to the students what you are
trying to teach in the first place. But every once in a while you get a
group of very lazy people that will simply use the extra credit to keep
their grade up and not even try in class to earn their grade. Often times
these people are very smart just lack motivation to be all they can be. So
basically you really can't pin extra credit down good or bad - it really
depends on the situation because; a classroom is similar to a science lab,
you have to keep experimenting with it because every class is different so
not everything works the same.
Dr Jack's "Angry" response: The writer
really sums up the different positions to this issue nicely, but ,"even
though not everything works the same", the general opinion of all the
writers is that extra credit is a less than a sound academic practice . If
this is the case, why do instructors continue with its use and why hasn't
any instructor at Kent stepped up to defend it?
This was received: 21 September
2004 ...It's not politically correct for Santa to go around our
neighborhood at Christmas this year. This is not the world I grew up in.
How can the future kids get past this shit? A liberal in the 70s was
someone who was pro-choice, was OK with pot, wanted left alone. Now a
liberal is fighting for your kids to learn next year that it's OK and
healthy for little Susie to kiss Jane and get married. It's hard enough to
make stuff, sell stuff and get along with people ... there's no hope for
us if we have to do it walking on eggshells, and keeping all happy,
because that's impossible and it shouldn't be
expected.
Dr Jack's "Angry" Response: Uh-huh - I am
just going to wait and see what the response is to this older student's
gripe. It is sure interesting. Actually there are two main points of
contention in the issue: 1. A "politically correct" society arose in
the United States from a complex and often convoluted history of social
conflict starting with the rights protests of the 50s, 60s and 70s (20th
century). An outcome from this historical process was the litigious
society being very sensitive not to "offend" people - particularly
minorities and women's groups. The problem is that in a "free" society
everyone is supposed to have freedom to express their opinion. If one is
stiffled expressing an opinion concerning a person and/or group, then the
very stiffling can be offensive to the person who expressed the opinion in
the first place! So both parties are now "offended"! Actually, it is not a
question of being offended and more a matter of choice paucity. If there
are three ideas (for example A,B andC), the U.S. culture tends to say it
is OK to talk openly about A and B, but NOT C. This is not only offensive,
but also social censorship. Many argue there is no real freedom in the
United States, because one is only free to discuss what those in power
decide is appropriate discussion material. If a person does not do this,
they may find that they are in for a court battle and/or are jeopardizing
their job! 2. The issue of gayness was also attached to the above
argument and needs some discussion too. Being gay is a matter of personal
choice and not a particularly significant issue in sociology. After all,
one still does have the freedom of personal choice in the United States.
It is everyone's right to choose for themselves what they accept or do not
accept. Who they like and who they do not like. The problem is when
personal choice is politicized and competing groups start vying for power.
The relation between personal choice and politics is night and day.
Personal choice becomes political when it is a group concern and
social power is involved. Certainly "gayness" is an attribute of many, but
it is the oppression of gays that has elevated it to a political entity.
On the other hand, oppression is oppression and that is NOT a matter of
personal choice, nor sex, nor age. Here a larger social problem is masked
and has to be dealt with in a culture that espouses "freedom", but we have
already seen that freedom can be limited. Finally, my opinion on the above
received article is that the author has an interesting point in one area
and really should not be so concerned in another. I'll leave it up to the
reader to decide which areas I am talking about...Dr
Jack This was Received: 28 September
2004, The fact that in America today you have to watch every little thing
you say or do because, of the fear of having a lawsuit brought down on
your head it just pathetic. Yes what some people have to say is rude and
cruel at times but we are supposed to have the freedom to say as we wish
and not be punished for it. That is one of the reasons our founding
fathers started the revolution against Great Britain. This country is just
slowly slipping to a morally bankrupt shell of the once proud and powerful
nation we once were. Freedom of speech is dead along with the values of
this nation. As each generation comes along and grows up with them dies
the respect for people and our past. No one cares anymore that our blood
had to be spilled to make us free. All people care about anymore is that
MacDonald's is "making our children fat" and what is going to happen on
tonight's episode of CSI. At times you almost have to hang your head in
shame to be called an American because of the absolutely stupid things
people will do for money. Greed runs this nation and greed will bury this
nation. Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
Freedom of speech is a real dilemma today and one might agree with
the above that there is very little of it. I suppose what bothers me
personally is the hypocrisy that goes along with it. For example, Monday I
was in the lobby of Community College of Allegheny County - North
talking to a department head. In the atrium was an exhibit for and
presided over by Native Americans. One of the Indians went outside and
three women teachers trotted right up to the doors and began making rather
obvious remarks about how "good his buns were" and another said "I
wouldn't mind ..." That is OK for them, but if a male were to ogle a
female Indian like these women professors did, he would be jumped on
immediately for sex discrimination and being a "chauvinistic pig"! This is
probably no more than a reflection of upper management's attitude, but
(again) in the U.S. there are things that one is "free" to discuss and
there are others that are taboo. Not particularly unusual, but the problem
part is consistency. If one group is restricted in a specific area of
discussion - so should all groups if in point of fact this is a "free"
country. This was Received: 30
September 2004, Everyone is entitled to their opinion and everyone is
entitled to share their opinion. An opinion becomes dangerous only when it
leads to action that prevents a group (whatever group that may be) from
life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. There will always be someone
out there who thinks that they are better and should be in control. And
there will always be the people who resist being controlled. Isn't it
funny though, people who fight to be on top are the people more often than
not are constantly aware of their own inadequacies. and for those people
who make these angry statements: Do you vote at every election? If you
don't vote, you don't have the right to complain The following excerpt is reproduced at the request and by
permission of the author (Erin Gadd) as it appeared in the Daily Kent
Stater of 9-30-04: (Ms Gadd
refers to the grant to study aspects of smoking on campus and this is part
of her response) "I am tired of the constant preaching that the country
gets on the dangers of smoking. It's bad for us, we get it, let it go! I
am tired of cities and states making public places smoke-free. The entire
State of New York and now the city of Columbus will never see me as a
visitor as long as they continue to discriminate against me. I am a smoker
and I have rights. I believe that I am a courteous smoker. If I am
visiting your home and you don't smoke, I will gladly go outside. The same
thing applies to your car. I won't blow smoke in your direction and I will
NEVER smoke around children. Having said all these things, I am officially
boycotting any business that does not have a smoking section inside the
building. I am officially boycotting the State of New York, the city of
Columbus and any other place that does not allow smoking inside public
places. I am a smoker, I have rights and I am tired of being discriminated
against. Now if you will excuse me, I need a
cigarette." Dr Jack's "Angry" Response: Ms. Gadd's point
concerns the idea that, by definition, "public" generally refers to access
by all and that provisions will be made for such. Her complaint is that
"public" has been specifically re-defined to exclude a segment of the
population. i.e., "smokers". Ergo, discrimination! Certainly her argument
has credence but for the fact that the use of "public" infers Platonic
"rights". What Ms Gadd has failed to include is that "rights" are not
written in stone tablets and tend to be defined by those who control the
power structure. Even the Equal Rights Movement stipulated "equal rights",
not "sacred rights". On the other hand, the real problem is the
politicalization of anti-smoking and smoking camps vying for power to
control a specific segment of the social environment. (It is a mistake to
equate personal choice with politics. Politics involves a consensual
social phenomena for group power.) The strong anti-smoking lobby has gone
the last step by demonizing smokers to the point that they are thrown out
of buildings to smoke on the sidewalk. If industry provides all kinds of
adjustments for the diversity of people in their structure, they can
surely provide a "smokers room"! Here, I believe, is the strength of
Ms Gadd's argument whereas a great deal of her discourse is an emotional
appeal, often with a shaky philosophical background. I do like and
understand her general discussion and invite the reader to see her other
comments, especially those aimed at Kent State in the 30 September edition
of the Daily Kent Stater. It is nice to see East Liverpool students
can be just as erudite and thoughtful as those at the Main and other
branch campuses. This was Received:
3 October 2004, In my opinion, it is both good and bad
when a "public" place prevents people from smoking inside. It, to me, is
the same as when a person does not allow people to smoke inside their
homes. Some people, like myself, are greatly allergic to smoke and
tobacco. If there are a lot of people smoking in one area, I get short of
breath and start having severe allergic reactions...sneezing
continuously,. watery, itching eyes, etc.. I become miserable. By making
those who smoke go outside a public place allows those like me to have an
enjoyable place to go. Most restaurants have the smoking and non-smoking
sections side by side, which consequently doesn't help any. All the smoke
still mixes with the non-smoker's air. I don't see why smokers are getting
so upset. If one is willing to exit a person's home for the better of
their health, why are they not willing to exit a building for the better
health of those like me? I realize that this is a type of discrimination,
however, they chose to smoke. It is their own fault they are smoking.
People know that in restaurants some have smoking areas and some do not.
It was their choice to start smoking, and those who do, knew the
consequences before they started They knew that these things existed. They
could have said "no" in the beginning. It is different when one is born a
darker color skin, or male or female, and discriminated against. They
could not choose what to be. That I believe is unfair, however, smokers
choose to smoke knowing the consequences. So, in my opinion, "public"
places which do not allow smoking are not doing it to just single out
smokers, it is for the safety and health of those who, like me, are
allergic or have breathing problems with which the smoke might interfere.
Also, just to add a little more, I do have friends/relatives who smoke.
They understand that they chose to smoke, knowing the consequences. They
accept it. They realize it is an inconvenience to go outside to smoke, but
they do for the health of others. Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
Wow! If effect, they are saying Ms Gadd's
position is insensitive and just as discriminatory as the position Ms Gadd
takes! In fairness to Ms Gadd, one would have to respond to the
writer by informing them that life does not infer a condition of
"fairness" and that "knowing the consequences of an act" does not mean
that one will take action on such nor be behaviourally consistent to their
beliefs! This was Received: 4 October 2004, Ms
Gadd: Actually standing up for something will always come back to you if
you make it a personal statement and do not have the backing or support of
a group. I spent my whole life trying to be a group - and I am not. We all
make the assumption that our beliefs are embraced by others, but it may
not be the case which I have found out often to my dismay. The basis
of most philosophies is personal and to be able to accept that our
response is feminized and that words are not going to say what an
action will do. If you get fired because you smoked, then all you can say
is that "I got fired because I smoked!" You have to be a part of a group
or an integral player in the power structure to make change for you as an
individual." CW Dr Jack's "Angry" Response: Amen! These three statements are fundamental concerns in
this issue or any issue involving opinion and political tactics. They are
all sound discussions and speak well for the thinking of East Liverpool
students in general. Write in and state which person you believe has the
strongest argument. It should be interesting! This was
Received 8 October 2004:
So by reading that definition (a lengthy
definition of "discrimination" quoted from Merriam-Webster dictionary) and
interpreting it in your own way yes being a smoker you are being
discriminated against. But I still feel there is nothing wrong with not
letting smokers come into some businesses. A black person, a gay person,
Jew, Muslim, Christian or non-smokers are not a threat to my health. While
I do not have allergies, I do however wish to prolong my life and keep
myself healthy. I have chosen not to smoke because, I know all the bad
side effects that come with it and I don't want that in my life. By being
a smoker you say you don't care and choose to smoke anyways which is all
right, that is your choice. But where in the Constitution does it say that
you may smoke around me and cause me to have health problems later if
life? It is a proven fact that second hand smoke is even worse than
actually smoking the cigarette in the first place. By smoking around me
you have just revised my promise to myself not to smoke. I might as well
pick up that cigarette and puff away it be better for me than what you
exhale around me. Discriminating is not a good thing and I do not support
it but not letting a black man into a business is wrong because he isn't
hurting anyone. A smoker on the other hand can hurt others around them.
Not on purpose of course but still by choosing to smoke and by doing so
that hurts others. Some businesses don't serve alcohol beverages.
That is there choice to do so. Beer drinkers and such know this and just
don't go to those places knowing they wont get what they want. They not in
an uproar about it. The except the fact that some people don't like to be
around drinking because, it can lead i repeat IT CAN BUT NOT ALWAYS lead
to bad situations because of the side-effects of alcohol. So in closing my
suggestion to smokers who feel discriminated against because they choose
to smoke and the rest of us don't; cut your own life short that is your
choice but you ain't cuttin' my life short so take it outside. Dr
Jack's Angry response: Actually I am kind of "angry" this time. First, this
could not be a student of mine because they would know how upset I get
with that opening of quoting the dictionary. Dictionaries are not
authorities on anything except spelling and sometimes that is
questionable. Second, this article is a conglomerate of clichés and non
sequitors which makes one suspect that the writer simply did not take
enough time to properly express their opinion. There are too many
misspellings and wrong forms. To the writer, I would also say get a
book and learn the use of internal punctuation - especially commas. Having
said that, there is a point to be made here and I understand, but the lack
of a consistent form of argument takes away its effectiveness. The
discussion is more of an emotional stream of consciousness which is OK,
but the grammar ruins the impact of its meaning. Dr Jack's
Response on his Response: Perhaps I am too harsh in my criticism of
the above writer and I apologize. This is an open forum and I would not
want anyone to resist submitting an opinion because they felt there would
be undue criticism concerning their
grammar and writing style.
Again, this one is on me, but anyone who has ever been in my classes knows
I am a real S.O.B. when one bases their argument on dictionary
definitions. This was Received 10-10-2004:
I wish people would wake up and realize that the recent
focus on the dangers of smoking is the government's way of distracting us.
If everyone is concentrating on the dangers of smoking no one will notice
that several of our rights have been taken away. Then again, the
government does not want everyone to quit smoking. If that happened then
the billions of dollars collected from tobacco taxes would go bye-bye. But
this is not the focus of my gripe. The focus of my gripe is that there are
many businesses that are fast becoming smoke free. Why can't I go into a
restaurant, have a good meal and enjoy a cigarette? If someone is a
non-smoker and he/she does not want to be exposed to second hand smoke,
why not only patronize smoke free establishments? Why do all restaurants
have to be smoke free? Where are the restaurants that cater to smokers?
And as far as the Constitution goes, I could easily argue that not
allowing me to smoke violates my 9th Amendment rights. Finally: Honey
(previous writer), you live in the Ohio Valley. The fresh air that you
breathe outside is not so fresh, one could ponder that the fresh air
outside is worse for you than you know. If everyone will remember, last
year the government started and investigation on why so many people in
this area have cancer. Here's a hint: it ain't from smoking. One last word
on smoking in public places and then I will say no more. If you don't like
my smoking - YOU LEAVE! Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
It looks like this will never end and I am really surprised
at the emotion displayed from smokers and non-smokers. One might think
there would be more on "abortion", terrorism, corporate theft, etc..
Apparently "smoking rights" strikes a very sensitive chord. Then again, it
may be we are witnessing the "growing pains" of a culture in transition
attempting to solve or absolve an old problem which has been around for a
long time. Consider the following from The Lost Promise of
Patriotism by Jonathan M. Hanson: "...the
problem of U.S. civic identity at the turn of the twentieth century: how
does a country founded on liberal principles and composed of diverse
(many) cultures secure the solidarity required to safeguard individuality
and promote social justice? The problem of American civic identity has
received considerable attention of late from scholars and cultural critics
concerned about the current state of liberalism and democratic
participation. Rampant individualism, economic disparity and the
impression of a government for sale on the open market induce political
cynicism and a consequent retreat from public life that transforms
citizens into spectators." To "safeguard
individuality and promote social justice" - are not the previous arguments
on the horns of this dilemma? It may not be that the writers are so much
against each other, but more trying to sort out cultural contradictions
that they have to live through! Student Statement by
permission of the author 20 October 2004: "In my own
experience, being born and raised in poverty, I find it hard to believe I
could ever make it out. Being born in poverty has put me behind a
boundary, which most people never get to cross. Granted, I am currently
attending college to try to pull myself out of the poverty level, but even
with training and skills, I may not make it far above that level. I truly
believe that if you weren't born into wealth, the chance of getting to a
high social status is nearly impossible unless one possesses an amazing
talent. or a beautiful face. I feel that one's future firmly depends on
your social standing and your ability to connect with the right
individuals." Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
The writer is probably expressing
what everyone has come to know that the old saying of "you can be anything
you want to be in America" is just not true and those that do rise to
higher social status are talented and lucky, but they are also the
exceptions. Even ascending
in the middle class has become monumental with the minimum wage holding
people in a "minimum wage" stereotype that prevents them from moving away
from low paying situations as WalMart, Wendy's, Eckerd, education
part-timers and the like that are oppressed through economics,
discrimination and hours. (A professor from the University of Cincinnati
has written that part-time college instructors are a new class of migrant
workers in America!) The fact that one is "stuck in" or born to a certain
social strata often hinders their knowledge of the behavioural experience
they need to "get out of" a negative social situation! Research bears
witness to the fact that the middle class is being eroded and the gap
between those given overblown salaries and those pressed to economically
survive is getting wider. Once it was true, now it is suspect that college
will get one a career and better job. Put it this way, the United States
has the greatest number of highly educated bartenders and
waiters/waitresses that any other culture in the world!
Received 10-22-2004: Who is the new
Dean and why haven't they introduced themselves to the students?
Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
Deans all have different styles. Some are outgoing,
others not. Stop in the Dean's Office and introduce yourself. I'm sure you
will be welcomed by that office. Received 10-24-04:
As I was reading the Point For Progress, I was
surprised to find that the absurd subject of smoking had finally fizzled
and an issue that effects so many in this area has been noted. ... I have
always been interested in the issue of social boundaries. Have and Have
Not has been an issue of predjudice and injustice throughout <an's
history. Class distinction has been man's insurmountable hurdle forever.
It is the sole reason for the demise of all "Utopian Societies". No one
wants to be equal. Everyone wants to have more than the other. The rich
want to hold their social status and really don't want anyone else to have
apiece of it. That is the reason old money despises new money. On the
other hand, there is such a frantic race to get get get (these are the
writer's words and it is left to the reader for interpretation) that the
poor as a as a whole will never have a chance. For example, as soon as you
start to get ahead, everyone imaginable will be there doing all they can
to get a part of what you have - to level you off. The bureaucrats want to
tax you, your cousin needs new wheels for his house (?), and your neighbor
wants you to get them into your network. You should help your fellow man,
it is your family and civic duty to do that. Instead, you either cheat on
your taxes or use every legal trick you can to beat them. You turn your
nose up to your friends and family. They need to work as hard as you to
get what you have is your attitude. Who is right? Do you fall into
socialism and communism or is capitalism the way. Communism has been
proven wrong. No one wants to be equal. Capitalism has spawned the envy
and hatred that has brought about the terrorist attacks that plague the
world. Dr Jack's "Angry" Response:
Well, how many times do I have to reiterate that the
pronoun "you" simply turns a reader off because the excessive use is
accusatory and not everything one says applies to "everybody". Interesting
discussion, though. Actually, the "downfall of communism" or perhaps the
fall of the Berlin Wall did not prove anything about the essence of
socialistic theory except that capitalism just beat it down! Are we then
to say that capitalism is "right"? Certainly not. Theories of governments
are just theories - it is the implementation of such by people
where the value judgment comes. People are "right and/or wrong", theories
are not. Again, the argument proposed really is between individuality and
the conservative nature of the American culture. Contradictory themes that
lead to a great deal of dissent and difficulties not only personally, but
politically. Received
10-29-04: I am curious to find out how many f my fellow Kent
State alumni are aware of the "breed specific" legislation or "vicious dog
laws" that are being passed in an alarming number of states here in
America and across the world. A simple summary of these laws ... states
that certain breeds of dogs are being classified as vicious or dangerous
animals and once a state passes this foolish law, regulations are put in
place for people that own any dogs under this law. These laws really do go
much more in depth and it also depends on which state you are referring to
but that is the Breed Specific legislation or BSL in a nutshell. Even here
in Ohio BSL have been passed and put into place but almost every state now
in America has some form of these laws. It has even gotten to an extreme
where certain cities have completely banned the dogs that are labeled
under these laws from their city limits. Cincinnati ... is an example and
in Michigan a total of six cities has banned these dogs from their streets
and the number only grows every year. One part of this discriminative law
is that in certain states including Ohio you have to buy an insurance
policy to help cover you if your dog would attack someone and this
insurance is usually in the neighborhood of $100,000 per dog. (ed.s
note: it is assumed this is NOT the COST of the insurance as a yearly
premium) The one breed of dog that has taken the brunt
of this is the pit bull. In almost every single law you can find on BSL:
the pit bull is named every time as a vicious animal. (ed.s note:
the pit bull is well documented as a "vicious" animal, but it is
contentious whether it is a matter of atavism and/or training) Other breeds under attack are ... and the list goes on and
on. These laws even regulate how the animal must be kept and what kind of
kennel must be provided for the dog so it will be unable to escape. These
laws are appalling to me as a dog lover not only because of the fact you
are telling me that all these dogs are vicious, you are then going to tell
me that I can't either own one of these dogs or must keep it locked up its
whole life. What makes these laws so atrocious is that they lump the whole
breed together and don't base it upon the dog's personality. (ed.s
note: Surely you do not want a state fee to certify the dog is
"sane"!) Just as people have different personalities,
so do dogs and it is unjust to label a perfectly harmless dog vicious
before you can even know what the dog is really like. (ed.s note:
Granted, but just like normal people, a dog can turn vicious depending on
the situation. One can not assume a "nice" dog will be "nice" all the
time. Sometimes calm dogs turn vicious against humans for reasons known
only to the canine kingdom!) I do however understand
that these certain breed where bred for certain purposes such as guard
dogs, but that makes no excuse to chastise the whole breed when the
majority of these animals are not guard dogs but family pets. (ed.s
note: Most families assume a "family pet" is also a guard dog.) Law makers have unlawfully put these laws into action not
only against the dogs themselves but dog owners. (ed.s note: It is
impossible for a law to be "unlawful"- if it is a law! Perhaps here a
better choice of words would be the value judgment of "unjust law".) People are overlooking why dogs attack and why people are
injured. A dog is no different than a person in that they can be
influenced and basically molded into something. It is fact
(ed.: define "fact" and its source?) that an
abused child has a higher tendency to become an abuser when the child is
older. An abused dog is more likely to be vicious not out of breeding but
out of survival and training. (ed.s note: This is contentious.
Inner city dogs are highly abused, but they are fearful and reticent to be
around humans.) Lawmakers are passing these laws
without seeing or understanding the whole truth. It seems to me that since
a dog is unable to speak for itself and defend itself (?) that
automatically means it is not a living thing and doesn't have feelings.
(ed.s note: This is an emotional statement drawing an unsound
conclusion.) Anyone that has been around a dog knows
that it is far from the truth, dogs have emotions and understand what is
going on around them. Dog owners need to speak up for their dogs and be
their voices to the world and lawmakers before it is too late. If you
think you might be affects by these laws based on what type of dog you own
please educate yourself on what the law states. There are endless website
out there on these laws to help you. The people need to stand up against
our blind lawmakers before someone comes knocking on your doorto take
Rover to the pound for execution for simply being a
dog. Dr Jack's "Angry" Response: What have I
said about the use of "you: and "seems". No one listens to me anyway.
Having worked in the circus when I was a kid, I know
firsthand the devotion people have to animals and it is OK. I also
understand that the majority of problems with animals, like attack and
viciousness, comes from the animal's perception that its territorial
imperative is being violated and this is a problem that most humans do not
understand, yet humans put fences around their yards and stay out of
"strange neighborhoods" - oh well! Here is a suggestion for the writer and
lawmakers. Today, some dogs come with a "degree", which has nothing to do
with a pedigree. After a dog's name sometimes one will see two
letters - "GC". This means the dog is a "Good Citizen" because it
has gone through substantial training for just that. They are obedient,
alert to danger, will walk next to the owner and will stay in place if
called upon among other practical behaviours to let them integrate
amicably with others. Instead of the "dangerous dog" labels, it might be a
better solution to have all dog owners, before their dog was licensed, put
their dogs through school to earn their "GC"
Degree.
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